Bebé Sueño

A Colombian adoption story!

Friday, October 3, 2008

Trip to Exito by Ourselves and... oh yea... SENTENCIA!

The day started out innocent enough - our regular trip to breakfast in the hotel and then showers. We decided to quit whining about everything and just hop in a taxi by ourselves and head to the mall.

The mall trip and taxi rides by ourselves went well. We were there a bit early at 9:30am or so (stores seemed to open around 10:00 like back home) but Exito was open of course.

We strolled around, picked up some things that our grocery store doesn't carry, and got Elkin a new pair of shoes! (US size 6 if anyone was curious ;).

We hopped a taxi back to the hotel and the phone rang as soon as we walked in. It was the ICBF representative that we had met the day we got Elkin. She speaks no English by the way. All I understood was "Hi, how are you doing?" I answered and then she asked something else at which time I reminded her that I speak no Spanish - she laughed and hung up.

Weird.

Of course that got us excited. What if everything is done here and we got our sentencia (the final paperwork that no one else can get because of the strike)? We decided to call our interpreter in a few minutes.

Phone rang again almost right away. It was the interpreter. "Where have you been all morning? We've been trying to get a hold of you! The lawyer will be there in 10 minutes and you'll be going to Elkin's home town to get everything completed!"

Yipee!!!! BIG surprise. This is even earlier than they estimated. We were just hoping it would happen sometime NEXT week. Next Friday would have been awesome let alone TODAY.

A Colombian-10-minutes later (45 minutes) she showed up and off we were to get the remainder of the signatures on the sentencia and get Elkin's new birth certificate started. Our interpreter couldn't come with us so some of the details of what we did are a little sketchy due to our language barrier (I'm sure it's all fine - everyone has done this several times before).

Our first stop was in a small town to complete the sentencia. Several people, including a judge, had to sign this legal document which to our understanding is our legal adoption of Elkin in Colombia. So at this point, after this document, we believe Colombia sees us as his legal parents.

This document, the sentencia, is what everyone else adopting in the larger cities where the strike is going on dream about having in their hands. It required a judge's signature and since the judges aren't working in most places, the sentencia can't be completed.

Here's a pic of our lawyer and Elkin at this stop:

Elkin & Lawyer

After we had the sentencia, we traveled to the very, very small town that Elkin was born in. This is where the records of his birth are located and where we had to get the ball rolling on his new birth certificate with our names on it. This will be complete on Monday and is the last legal thing we need to complete in Monteria aside from getting him a Colombian passport.

The government building in this very small town was quite the sight. It was a concrete square building not much larger than a department store bathroom. The ceiling was falling in, old electrical outlets were exposed, a single florescent bulb was the only source of light in the whole room. There were a couple of computers that were all tied into one overloaded outlet.

At one point, Elkin needed to get his fingerprints taken for his new birth certificate. We were led out back where, and I'm not kidding, his fingerprints were taken under a straw hut.

That was quite the adventure.

The birth certificate will be complete on Monday and we can go pick it up then at the same office. After that, we need to get his Colombian passport made up with his new name (which we obviously need his new birth certificate for). After we have that, we can fly to Bogota, get Elkin's US Visa, complete some other various tasks, and then head home.

So yes, this happened much faster than we thought. It's only a few days quicker than our lawyer quoted us last week, but we assumed it would take longer than that.

Best case scenario, we're home with Elkin the middle of next week. More likely it'll be toward the end of the week. So as long as we don't run into a big snag somewhere, this may turn out to be a less-than-3-week trip!

We're still planning on taking our day outing to the beach on Sunday and I think tomorrow we'll go for another swim and get some ice cream at the park again.

6 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous said...

This is so wonderful! We are so excited! And we can not wait to meet our new grandson!

October 3, 2008 at 9:33 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

omg THAT IS WONDERFUL NEWS, CANT WAIT TO SEE YA

October 4, 2008 at 3:51 AM  
Blogger deanna willett said...

Congratulations! Things moved quickly for you guys!! Enjoy your trip to the beach and your last few days in Colombia.

October 4, 2008 at 7:59 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Wow, you continue to surprise us all with wonderful news nearly every day!! Can't wait to meet Elkin and see your happy faces!!
Love, Aunt Marcia

October 4, 2008 at 8:18 AM  
Blogger Nancy said...

Congratulations!

October 4, 2008 at 9:04 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

What fabulous news! WE will all be anxious to meet your new son.
We can relate to your frustrations about being in a strange country and having to endure inconveniences that we take for granted. Our 4 weeks in India was so much the same. We'll have to compare notes some time. I found these wonderful little verses this morning while surfing. thought I would share with all.

I didn't come out of my mother.
I don't have my father's green eyes.
No one in my family looks like me.
People are always surprised.

I think we're a happier family
Than if we were all kings and queens.
We're so lucky we all found each other.
That's what being adopted means.

The Gift of Life
I didn't give you the gift of life,
But in my heart I know.
The love I feel is deep and real,
As if it had been so.

For us to have each other
Is like a dream come true!
No, I didn't give you
The gift of life,
Life gave me the gift of you.
--- Unknown
LEGACY OF AN ADOPTED CHILD
Once there were two women who never knew each other
One you do not remember, the other you call Mother
Two different lives shaped to make you one
One became your guiding star, the other became your sun
The first one gave you life, and the second taught you to live it
The first gave you a need for love, the second was there to give it
One gave you a nationality, the other gave you a name
One gave you a talent, the other gave you aim
One gave you emotions, the other calmed your fears
One saw your first sweet smile, the other dried you tears

Nancy

October 4, 2008 at 12:39 PM  

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