Bebé Sueño

A Colombian adoption story!

Monday, December 31, 2007

The Year in Review

It's been quite a year! We started this year trying to conceive a biological child on our own. We had been trying for the year before this one so we were quite frustrated and heartbroken to start the year without much hope of having a family this year. Not long after the new year started we began what seemed liked endless doctors appointments, prescriptions and tests. We didn't get very far before we realized that this was not the path we wanted to take. We began to care less and less about having a biological child and more and more about being able to have a child without having to face that monthly disappointment. We began to research adoption and was soon on the process on deciding to adopt a child from Colombia through Children's Hope International. The sense of relief and excitement we felt was thrilling. The paper chase was on and we wanted to get our paperwork in as soon as possible. We submitted our dossier to Colombia the end of August this year. We have spent the rest of the year on a roller coaster of emotions from being excited, anxious, melancholy, happy and everything in between. We face the new year knowing that we won't have a child this year but we look forward to taking the days one step at a time learning all that we can about how to care for our child and incorporate the Colombian culture into our household. We know there will be good days and bad days but we know that the journey will be well worth the wait when we get to hold that precious child in our arms.

6 Comments:

Blogger Christy said...

Good way of summing it up! I hope it is a wonderful year for you guys as we continue our waits. :) Do you quilt at all? I've been thinking about starting...it sounds like a good way to put my time and thoughts into something worthwhile. :) God bless.

December 31, 2007 at 2:04 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Well this grandma started a baby quilt shortly after you told us your plans. This one is pink. But when I'm done (and I am slow) I will start on a blue one.
Here's to a great New Year that just brings you closer to your baby.

January 1, 2008 at 11:49 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

If you decide to embark on 100 wishes quilt let me know! I'd love to send you a square! My 100 wishes quilt is on my blog: web.mac.com/adelman622/iweb/

My email: dampudiaadelman@cox.net

January 1, 2008 at 9:09 PM  
Blogger Wendi and Benjamin Wood said...

Stacy, Wow, thanks for sharing your story...I can relate to a lot of it going thru like frustrations and disappointments...and you are right...it is so worth the wait when you hold that child in your arms...May you have an awesome year with many blessings and God prepare you and your family for the little one He will place in your arms and also make way in Colombia for you...may your blessings come sooner than later!!!

January 4, 2008 at 10:35 PM  
Blogger LISA said...

Stacy,
Hi! Glad you found my blog! We are in the Southeast part of the state.Isn't it wonderful having the paperwork done,(for now)and sit back and wait for a referral.Ugggh, waiting!

January 7, 2008 at 10:16 PM  
Blogger Nicole said...

I sure can remember everything you have described! Who enjoys being poked and prodded, anyway? This is a very exciting process with the rollercoaster ride of the wait. You both will get through it, as we all have had to. Doesn't make it easier but knowing that God has his hand upon your future child should give you reassurance that you are in the right place. Looking forward to hearing that you are approved. It should be pretty soon!

Nicole

January 11, 2008 at 10:15 PM  

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